In
this section, we will explore the role of Somali Women in the family
and their role in the community.
Traditionally
Somali Families have a distinct division of labour between men and women.
Today, women are primarily responsible for the care of children and the
household, and make important decisions with their husbands. For
Somali women in Canada who are now without their husbands, decision
making on their own is a new responsibility.
The
pride and honour of Somali families is considered to rest mainly on women.
If a girl is well brought up and maintains her dignity, she reflects well
on her family, and conversely, if she behaves poorly she brings them shame.
A girl's behaviour is therefore considered very important and Somali families
may be seen as strict by Canadian standards.
Somali
women have never used their husband's surname after marriage because of
their culture. Instead, they carry their father's surname forever.
The children from a Somali marriage will always carry their father's
surname. This has been the Somali tradition for generations.
A Somali
woman officially uses three names: her own given name, father's name and
grandfather's name. There is no family surname. In Canada,
the father's or grandfather's name is generally taken as the surname,
but in Somalia a husband and wife have different last names, depending
on their ancestors' names.
In
the Somali society, women have the right to work, but it is not obligatory
for women to work because men have been given the duty of providing for
the family.
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