CMAJ Readers' Forum

Physicians' role in care of loved ones

Online posting: March 18, 1997
Published in print: May. 15, 1997 (CMAJ 1997;156:1377)
Re: Too close for comfort? A family physician questions whether medical professionals should be excluded from their loved ones' care, by Dr. Michael C. Klein, CMAJ 1997;156:53-5 [full text / résumé]
We read with great interest Dr. Klein's experiences with the hospital care of his wife after she suffered a debilitating stroke. Klein shares his views on whether a physician who is a family member should be excluded from a loved one's care. It is commonly held that it is improper for a physician to be involved in the care of a loved one because his or her judgement may be clouded and perspective lost. However, in Klein's case he was the substitute decision-maker or he may have had power of attorney over his wife's care. In such a situation, decisions must include the opinion and informed consent of the family member, regardless of his or her profession. Therefore, deciding the extent to which family members need to be involved based on their occupation is discriminatory.

In our surgical practice we have always tried to include the opinion and comments of family members who are physicians, but only if the patient approves. We have found that this practice pleases the patient, puts the family at ease, helps build trust and rapport with the family and provides us with a contact who can then share information with other family members.

Klein describes a rather disturbing incident that occurred when "one nurse asked [him] to leave, saying that she couldn't do her work with [him] there." This would be considered completely unacceptable on a pediatrics ward, where children rely on the comforting hand of a parent or guardian. Why is this any different if an adult patient is involved? Again, if the patient's best interests were kept in mind, these confrontations would never happen.

We have never asked a family member to leave unless it was necessary for patient comfort. Indeed, several of our patients are physicians. If we were the least bit unsure about our skills as health care providers, how would we deal with these patients? If one of us has a problem with someone observing our technique, the problem lies with the worker and not the observer. The patient should not suffer because of it.

Carmine Simone, PhD
Division of Clinical Pharmacology
Hospital for Sick Children
Toronto, Ont.
placgrp@sickkids.on.ca

Martin Seidenschmid, DDS, MD
Philadelphia, Pa.


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